yes, i was harsh, i know it. i just get SO tired of posting questions on forums and getting treated like im an idiot. and its always from people who have nothing to offer.
marbles, in now way was i referring to you, other than the "30k dollar" system comment. i mean, its a bit presumptive to question if i know what im doing. $30k in high end audio is NOTHING, its a drop in the bucket, but its also nothing to sneeze at. i work in the industry, but a lot of this stuff is foreign because im more of an industry guy than a tweaker.
i just think a lot of people feel that multiple thousands of dollars worth of gear is insane and these people are somehow ridiculous for having it all. well, its take awhile, but i have it; it happens. and every single time i post on avs or anywhere else, i always get slammed for having nicer stuff. tons of people do. i saw where a guy had a $500 digital coax cable and wanted a soundcard that had coax instead of optical out. everyone ridiculed him for having such an expensive cable, and told him that a $5 optical cable sounds just as good. (i dont want this to turn into a cable discussion though, those are the worst!).
i just dont like feeling like a leper for having an expensive system. if it were $1500 or something, no one would question my inability to control the volume. and quite frankly, being someone who designs amps and has extensively tested all this out, taking out a part of the chain (preamp, etc) if its not necessary, is great for the signal. going straight from a high end sound card to the amps is much better than going through another box with another set of opamps, from my listening experiences.
dont question what i want to do, or whether what i want to do or not is approriate, just help me with the question. i dont doubt either you or perverted bear or whatever are more than capable, but at this point, its just easier to waste my time trying to figure it out, than to deal with this.
aside from all my "sissy remarks" (you do realize how ironic it is to call someone's comments 'sissy?'), i think i have figured it out.
i downloaded girder 3.29. i downloaded the girder file mentioned here, thanks tswhite70. the commands work just fine, and it seems xlobby can talk to girder, i just need the two to talk to eachother. i found a thread that talked about it how to interface the two, but im still working on it. this is my first time touching girder. here is the thread:
http://www.xlobby.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=447
sorry for everyone for getting pissy about the whole thing, i just wish i could ask a question and then get it answered. that would be soooooo nice