First off-
Welcome Lifter.
I think to answer you're question why the board is so dead, it's never been as "hoping" as say myhtpc's board cause there hasnt been much need to be. Normally if there a problem, we post it steven reads it, and its fixed, rarely do things get drawn out. You'll soon see how great steven is. Same goes for requests, you post it, he reads it and realizes the need for it(if there is one) and does his best to add it. I wish someone would make up a chart as to how many features he's added from requests, it would be mind blowing. And to top it off, we're just gotten the new alpha released a few days ago, which we were all eagerly waiting. You should have seen the board before that with everyone going back and forth about bugs found and features needed.
I think the reason there are people obsessing over myhtpc2 and not poeple over here is because myhtpc has been on "on top" for a while longer thenmyhtpc I know it's the first thing I heard of when looking for a front end. And with age comes poeple dedicated to it, even if its not really anything to be freaking out over. No offen to pablo, he's a great guy. But I'm a firm believer (you might even be able to say obsesive) that xlobby is much much better then myhtpc.
As for yhe reason you can't download the skin off the download page, well that's because the skin engine as well as the events engine have been recently redone/added. Hold onto your horses for some crazy skins though, I just got a preview at a few and they blew my socks off. And, once again not to stir up trouble, but arent eh skin for myhtpc2 just mock up and not really working since it hasnt been released yet? (That was my understanding, I could be wrong though).
All the politics aside, stick around and hope on the chat server, theres alot of activity there. Good luck!
-matt
ps- His name is chad, and he's awesome. lol.
pps- Art lessons are great, you carry what you learn over to every aspect of your life. So fi you don't wanna take em sign me up for some, I'm always willing. hehe
edit: You wanna see a skin utilizing the new features of alpha 40 check out jowaldo's. I had the chance to test it, close to nirvana. so so good.
http://members.cox.net/jowaldo/xlobby/