I know, you get to a point where you just want it to work, right?
There probably is a setting or something in TT, but I can't check it right now because Joe is watching tv. Have you tried searching the TT forums? They have some good info over there & this really sounds like a TT thing rather than an Xlobby problem.
Try to be patient. You wouldn't believe how long it took me to iron out mine. I'd play with it solid for a couple of days & then I'd have to put it aside & not look at it for a couple of weeks out of sheer frustration. I had to do that because I'd get to a point where I felt like I was chasing my tail. You're very close, you'll get it working the way it should. Have you got the music section up?
EDIT: If you can't find the solution over there, post the problem on their forum. They are usually pretty responsive & supportive of their product, one reason that I bought it.