my setup WAS working just fine, but i just moved and now its very flakey. here is how it's setup... my main computer is in the media room. it has two network cards, a gigabit ethernet, and an 802.11G wireless card. the ethernet connects directly (with a crossover cable) to my server, which is just another computer with a bunch o' hard drives in it. the wireless connects to my wireless router. the two connections are bridged.
for control, i use a dell axim x30 with wifi. it connects to the wireless router of course. this setup worked perfectly at my last house. i used a belkin router there, but now i got a netgear, and its just not cutting it. basically, everytime i pick up the controller, the xlobby client just exits. sometimes, it will crash, and perform an illegal operation or something. if i leave it for more than 30 minutes or so, it will exit. i can easily re-load the program and its back to normal. also, sometimes both the network cards need to be disabled and re-enabled to talk to eachother. maybe its a bad router? is there a setting conflict in the router that could cause this? im inclined to get rid of the netgear and get another belkin. any ideas?